![]() He adopted dozens of honorary nephews and nieces, including my sisters and – eventually – my wife and children. He and my Auntie Yvonne raised many, many foster children. It extended to his children, his wife, his siblings and to an extended family of which I was honoured to become part of. Al had made an promise and he was going to keep it.Īl had an “awesome” sense of family. Now, I know he was already suffering from the condition that would ultimately take his life, but he never slowed down. Just last fall, he was there, lifting appliances and loading furniture on a truck to help me move my Mom and Step-dad into a new home. Not once did he put down the weight of the promise he had made. Al was always there – helping, supporting, guiding. Through all the ups and downs of our subsequent lives. No one would have expected him shoulder the “awesome” responsibility of looking after a grief-stricken widow and her young son. Al would have been in his early 20’s at the time. Now, the promise Al made could easily have been forgotten. Dad developed a blood clot and passed away, leaving behind my Mom and I. Uncle Al visited him in his hospital room and made a promise – “Bill, I will always look after your family if anything happens.” Of course, at 27 neither of them expected anything to really happen. They soon became inseparable friends.Īt the age of 27, my father had to have back surgery. They met at the church where my father was volunteering as a faith instructor. I know Al because of my father (he’s not a biological uncle – he’s an honourary one). A responsibility that is so heavy that you may be tempted to just set it down now and again. When my Uncle Al used the word “awesome” I think that is how he meant it.įor instance – “awesome” as in “awesome responsibility” – a responsibility so great that it can crush some people. ![]() The true definition of awesome, the one not corrupted by popular usage, is this:Ĭausing or inducing awe inspiring an overwhelming feeling of reverence, admiration, or fear But if anyone knew the true meaning of the word awesome, it was my Uncle Al. Like many words, it’s power has become diluted through over usage and misuse. Now, a lot of people use the word awesome. If we posted a picture of our kids, or ourselves – or pretty much anything – he always left the same comment…. ![]() He helped me set up my first stereo (complete with 8 Track player). He was an early adopter for his entire life. I wish you could have known him.Īl loved gadgets and technology.
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